Life is confusing sometimes...

Do you ever feel like some people are not who they say they are or who they try to make themselves out to be? Or that maybe you don't give others enough credit?? I've really been feeling like that a lot lately....especially within the last week. When you've been waiting for something for so long, the things that happen in the meantime are HUGE factors of what the result could be- On your own part and on the other person's part... Things get confusing and you hurt and then you're happy and then you're confused because something wasn't said right or something else was taken in the wrong way.....don't you wish we could just talk and let things out and trust people with all we have?? I guess that's where God comes in...he's the one you can trust with all your heart and he's the one who will always be there! Sometimes, it just gets difficult because you want so bad to confide in that special someone. (Not that God isn't special) Anyways, lately it just seems like people who say they care so much or who seem to "know how to handle things correctly" can't even talk about it. Yea, we can open up when we aren't in person, but then it's a whole other story when we are in person. I understand that things take time, but there's no reason for things to go unsaid for so long......Then I feel bad because I've held grudges from things in the past and have recently seen that, I've been wrong. People DO change...No, I'm not just talking about relationships in this whole story, I'm talking about friendships too! I guess that's just life....some relationships (friendship or romantic) work and some don't......but I'm definitely getting better understanding!!